I typically find it to take clients anywhere between 2 and 4 weeks to wean off a nipple shield from the time they begin working on it. An important first step is identifying why your baby is using a nipple shield to begin with. |
Meet Your IBCLCMany families will first meet a lactation consultant postpartum, usually at the hospital or birth center after their baby is born. However, you can visit with one prenatally and meet them before birth too! Often covered by insurance, a one-on-one consult with a board-certified lactation consultant will be helpful to gather information about latch and positioning, best practices for using your pump, how to size your flanges, and best of all knowing who, when, and how to call for support postpartum.
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If you haven't had an opportunity to meet your lactation consultant prenatally, plan to schedule your first consult by 3 and 5 days postpartum. Clients working with a lactation consultant in the first week of life are far more likely to see their baby regain their birth weight by the two week time frame.
Watch The Baby Not The Clock
How long should you feed your baby? Ten minutes? Fifteen? Thirty?
You will begin to notice two types of suck patterns when your baby is nursing. A nutritive suck is an active suck that leads to milk removal and calorie intake. When looking for this type of suck pattern observe your baby's chin, it should be pumping and driving the let down. Often the temple is seen pulsing, and active drinking noises can be heard such as a "kaw" when baby is swallowing (after the first 3-5 days).
The non-nutritive suck pattern is one that is usually observed when baby is falling or has fallen asleep at the breast. This pattern is more relaxed through the jaw with the movement often feeling like a quivering vs a pulling, like in a nutritive sucking pattern. During this time is when you may be able to unlatch your baby and lay them down for a bit, as they are in a deeper stage of sleep.
If your newborn slows down their nutritive sucking pattern to a non-nutritive one, try rousing them to drink more by adding in breast massage or compression, tickling their feet, or wiping their forehead with a cool cloth. If your they will not rouse to drink more and are on the first breast, break their latch, take a short break to burp and wake baby a bit, and then offer the other side before they fall too deeply into sleep.
You will begin to notice two types of suck patterns when your baby is nursing. A nutritive suck is an active suck that leads to milk removal and calorie intake. When looking for this type of suck pattern observe your baby's chin, it should be pumping and driving the let down. Often the temple is seen pulsing, and active drinking noises can be heard such as a "kaw" when baby is swallowing (after the first 3-5 days).
The non-nutritive suck pattern is one that is usually observed when baby is falling or has fallen asleep at the breast. This pattern is more relaxed through the jaw with the movement often feeling like a quivering vs a pulling, like in a nutritive sucking pattern. During this time is when you may be able to unlatch your baby and lay them down for a bit, as they are in a deeper stage of sleep.
If your newborn slows down their nutritive sucking pattern to a non-nutritive one, try rousing them to drink more by adding in breast massage or compression, tickling their feet, or wiping their forehead with a cool cloth. If your they will not rouse to drink more and are on the first breast, break their latch, take a short break to burp and wake baby a bit, and then offer the other side before they fall too deeply into sleep.
Feed Yourself, Feed Your BabyAn important part of feeding your baby is feeding yourself. On the most basic level it takes calories to make milk. Approximately 300-500 calories per day, a similar estimate for the body's needs during pregnancy. Fueling yourself will give you the energy for your body to work on healing from birth and establishing your milk supply.
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Are you the main cook in your home? Consider making a meal plan for the first two weeks postpartum during your pregnancy to reduce decision fatigue on your part later. The Instant Pot, freezer meals, meal preparation services, Grub Hub and Postmates can all help you feed yourself while you are busy feeding your baby in those early weeks.
Planning an out of hospital birth comes with many considerations. Who will be your primary healthcare provider? Will you birth in your home or in a free standing birth center? Will you plan for a water birth? Where will you purchase your supplies? No matter your final decisions, the journey to crafting a well tailored birth team is sure to be an exciting one! |
First, narrowing down your choices for midwifery care. When planning a home or birth center birth in Oklahoma you are likely to hire a midwife to oversee your prenatal, labor, and postpartum healthcare. Midwives take a relatively low number of clients each month compared to busy OBGYN practices, this means that their schedules fill up faster. Plan to reach out to your midwifery care potentials early to schedule meet and greet consults before they are fully booked!
So, what happens if your midwife can't attend your birth? What if they are already at someone else's birth?! We have a healthy and growing population of out-of-hospital birth midwives in Oklahoma! A midwife will have a list of back up midwives that they trust to care for you in their absence. Similarly your midwife may need to send a back up provider to another birth because they are currently serving you at your birth!
When I found out I was expecting my last baby I reached out to my midwife to secure services. Although she was available, it turns out she had planned to leave the country for vacation just days after my due date. Midwifery care was very important to me for my prenatal care, and I chose to remain with the midwife I desired and hoped she would be able to attend my birth but feeling comfortable knowing that our plan B was also in place should I birth while she was gone. She WAS able to attend my birth, and I am so grateful to have stayed in her care. It was exceptional and exactly what I needed.
- Jessica Cheatwood, IBCLC, RLC, HBCE
Next you might choose additional support people such as your midwifery assistant, doula, and lactation consultant. A midwifery assistant is a trained assistant that accompanies your midwife to your birth to assist in caring for you clinically. A doula is a non-clinical role that offers emotional and physical support to you and your partner during your labor, birth, and postpartum. A lactation consultant is an allied health provider that works with other providers collaboratively to provide clinical care for you and your baby. They are trained to assist with all aspects of initiating, maintaining, and troubleshooting lactation questions and concerns such as latching, pumping, lip and tongue tie information, weight checks, and more.
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When families birth in a hospital they may have access to a doula, a lactation consultant, and definitely nurses on staff that can visit with them during and after birth. Families planning an out of hospital birth may wish to employ a private support for their birth. You may choose to employ all of these provider types for your birth. You simply cannot have enough support!
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Lastly, you will need to decide where you will birth your baby. Your midwife may offer both home birth and birth center options, or home birth only. If there are any birth centers near you, call and schedule a tour to visit so you can see the facility and ask any questions you may have. If you choose to have your baby in your home (a lovely choice!) your midwifery team will bring all the same safety equipment that would be available at the birthing center to your home. When choosing a home birth, your provider will generally plan to visit you in your home for a prenatal in your last month of pregnancy to familiarize themselves with your home's location and layout.
No matter if you choose a birth center or home birth, typically your midwifery care team will continue your postpartum care in your home for the first couple of weeks postpartum. Not having to travel for consults in the early days are absolutely priceless! I have had clients tell me that they have had to travel out of the house with their baby nearly every day between baby well checks, postpartum checks for parents, lactation consults, chiropractic adjustments, routine infant exams etc. Home birth can help alleviate so much additional stress from travel and visiting in the those early weeks, a truly priceless gift to give yourself.
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During this complete childbirth education series you will learn relaxation techniques so that you can give your baby a welcome that is calm, gentle, and safe; achieving birth fulfillment–awake and alert–in a totally relaxed state of mind and body.
HypnoBirthing® classes are taught in a format of five, 2 1/2-hour units.
- Unit 1 – Setting the stage
- Unit 2 - Pre-birth family bonding and preparing your mind and body
- Unit 3 – Self-hypnosis visualization and advanced deepening
- Unit 4 – Overview and summary of childbirth
- Unit 5 – Birthing – The final act and bonding, preparing for the 4th trimester and breastfeeding
Included in your Registration:
Together we will:
- 1 Workbook
- 1 Rainbow Relaxation Download Card
- 1 HypnoBirthing Book
Together we will:
- Learn positive birth language
- Practice breathing techniques
- Explore affirmations
- Practice self-hypnosis
- Practice comfort techniques
- Explore creating a birth plan
- And more!
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